Get Him To Commit Before Sleeping Together (The Dating Vow)
Have you ever heard the saying: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment?
The "Dating VOW" Before Sleeping Together
I ___________________ agree to explore the process of getting to know you with the intent to declare something serious in the next 3 to 6 months.
I ___________________ agree to be monogamous sexually while we have regular sex together.
I ___________________ agree to not actively seek to meet/date others while we are in this dating process (including taking down dating profiles)
I ___________________ agree to speak up if this isn't working for me vs. pulling back, ghosting, or disappearing.
I ___________________ agree to invest regular time in this process of getting to know you, which looks like this _______________
90% of men will bail on this because thousands of women will have sex without any commitment/agreement whatsoever. If all women are banned together (from now on), this will change how men treat/view sex, but in the meantime, if he does agree, you have a better chance of commitment than without it. (btw, this is merely an opinion).
